I Am the Father I Always Needed

I am Papa to three beautiful souls — two daughters and one son. None of them share my biology, but they share my heart. They are not “mine” in the traditional sense, but they were entrusted to me by something far greater — by the Divine, by the Creator.

I love them as if they came from my own body, but more than that — I love them with intention. I love them with presence. I love them with purpose. Because I chose them, and I continue to choose them, every single day.

Being the Father I Longed For

I did not grow up with the kind of father I try to be now.
So I became him.

I became the father I needed — emotionally available, spiritually anchored, consciously aware. I teach my children what I wish someone had taught me:

• How to meditate and find their center

• How to recognize the energy of people around them

• How to pause before they answer

• How to feel and name what they’re experiencing

• How to honor their intuition and walk in their truth

I am a fierce protector when they’re with me. I wrap them in safety, in wisdom, in love. But I know I can’t shield them from everything. I can’t be there 24/7, 365 — as much as I would give anything to be. At some point, all children must become who they came here to be.

My job is not to control their destiny — my job is to support it, nurture it, and protect the light until they learn to protect it for themselves. I am a conscious, present, emotionally responsible father. And I’m raising them to become the same.

Navigating the Storm

Right now, we are walking through a storm.
Some news came to us — news that shook us all to the core. It’s the kind of pain you never want your child to feel, the kind of wound you wish you could absorb yourself to spare them. But life doesn’t work that way.

Not everyone is equipped to be all a child needs them to be. Sometimes a child comes through someone, but that doesn’t mean they came from them in spirit. And in those cases, I believe the Creator sends a back-up. A guardian. A vessel of healing.

Sometimes… the child’s journey is painful. Sometimes the harm they endure seems unspeakable. But even in that pain — a path to freedom is provided. A path to healing is always provided.

When we trust in that provision, when we surrender to the Way of the Creator, the path appears.

I Stand in That Trust

I trust in the Creator’s provision with every fiber of my being.
I trust that the wounds meant to destroy will one day become the doorway to deep strength, compassion, and purpose.
I trust that the valley of destruction will transform into the path of elevation.

And so I stay:
🕊️ Present.
🧘🏽 Focused.
🌱 Grounded.
🔥 Centered.

This is not the time to collapse. This is the time to be the father a child needs in the fire. To stand strong. To stay the course until the end — until the wounds that were meant to cause irreparable harm are fully healed.

I know in my heart that all three of our children are meant to do great things.
And as we walk through this together, I will be beside them — unwavering, loving, teaching, and holding space for their full return to power.

Because when the world is trying to break them…
I will be the one reminding them:
You are not broken. You are becoming.