The Power of Giving vs. Taking: Shift Your Mindset, Shift Your Life
Have you ever walked into a meeting, a conversation, or even a relationship feeling anxious, nervous, or fearful? Maybe you were worried about whether people would approve of you, whether you would "win" or "lose," or if you would get what you wanted.
That fear? It comes from a taking mindset.
When you approach a situation wanting something—whether it’s approval, validation, love, or financial gain—you are in a state of lack. You are operating from a place of need, and that energy is felt by everyone around you.
But what if you flipped that?
What if, instead of going in wanting to take, you went in ready to give?
The Energy Shift: Giving vs. Taking
Energy doesn’t lie. When you show up with a taking mentality, people feel it. They sense the neediness, the desperation, the fear. But when you come from a place of giving, you radiate confidence, abundance, and authenticity.
Think about it:
A Job Interview → If you go in thinking, I hope they like me, I need this job, you shrink. But if you go in thinking, I have value to offer, and I want to help this company succeed, you stand in your power.
A Sales Pitch → If you go in thinking, I hope they buy this so I can hit my target, they will resist. But if you go in thinking, This will truly help them, and I want them to experience this benefit, they will lean in.
A Relationship → If you go in thinking, I need them to love me so I can feel complete, you’ll always feel unstable. But if you go in thinking, I have love to give, and I want to share my heart, your relationships become fulfilling.
Winning Through Giving
The secret to winning in any situation is to give from the heart. When you shift your mindset from "What can I get?" to "What can I contribute?", everything changes.
Give your energy. Give your wisdom. Give your authenticity.
When you walk into a meeting with the belief that you are here to serve, to bring value, to share your gifts, you automatically shift the energy in the room. You become someone people want to listen to, work with, and be around.
And ironically, when you focus on giving instead of taking, you often receive more than you ever expected. Why? Because you are no longer operating from lack—you are vibrating with abundance.
Show Up From the Heart
The key is to feel it. You can’t fake genuine giving. It has to come from an authentic place within you.
Speak from your heart – Don’t worry about saying the "perfect" thing. Speak truthfully, openly, and with passion.
Feel from your heart – Connect to the reason you’re here. Whether it’s a meeting, a friendship, or a big presentation, remind yourself that your purpose is to bring value and share your light.
Show up from your heart – Confidence isn’t about arrogance; it’s about alignment. When you walk in knowing that your presence alone brings something valuable, you naturally attract success.
Give First, and the Rest Will Follow
This simple shift—from taking to giving—can transform your business, relationships, and personal growth.
So, the next time you feel fear creeping in, stop and ask yourself:
👉 Am I focused on what I need to get?
👉 Or am I focused on what I have to give?
When you start showing up with giving energy, you will naturally start winning—because you are no longer chasing approval, validation, or success. You are creating it from within.
And that is the ultimate power.
What’s one area in your life where you can shift from taking to giving? Drop a comment and let’s talk! 🚀✨